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CAN YOU HAVE A SOUL MATE OF A DIFFERENT RACE, SAME SEX, OR MULTIPLE ONES



Beshert is the Jewish notion of a soul mate. Beshert means destiny or predestined spouse. The concept is, God divides our souls in half. Into male and female. When they finally meet in holy matrimony, their bound returns. Can that bound be divided between Black and white or white and Asian relationships or between same sex relationships. Our can you have multiple soul mates you never met?

A soul mate is not gender specific, race specific, or relinquished to one person. A soul mate is like DNA there are multiple matches.

Finding a soul mate is a concept that is expressed as only happening between a man and a woman but it isn't that cut and dry. It's about getting a feeling that you have known each other before. There are many commonalities. You have similar values. There is deep mutual acceptance. You have the ability to help each other grow. Obstacles don't matter you still want to be together.

Those attributes can come with anybody although it should be a rare event. If I go to China should I be able to find a soul mate? Possible, but it should be very rare. If I was gay can I find a soul mate, yes you can. Can you have two or more soul mates in your life? The answer is no. A soul mate is part of your destiny or predestined from the beginning and they do not divorce. A soul mate should come with the first marriage but if you divorce that was not your soul mate. A second marriage can oftentimes develop a pseudo-soulmate with time and togetherness. That is a pseudo-soulmate that is not actually having the divine characteristics but is close. You cannot breakup with a soulmate even if a problem arise. Soulmate doesn't mean perfect.