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HOW MANY DIVORCES ARE TOO MANY TO MARRYING THEM



There is a familiar sayingFool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.” When a man or woman deceives me once, says the Italian proverb, it is their fault; when twice, it is mine.” Marriage also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognised union between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between those spouses. Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the process of terminating a marriage or marital union.

It is a resource needed to split the cake before some wigs get split, sort of speaking.

There are several reasons for divorce,

Infidelity. Extra-marital affairs are responsible for the breakdown of most marriages that end in divorce. ...Money makes people funny, or so the saying goes, and it's true. ...Lack of communication. ...Constant arguing. ...Weight gain. ...Unrealistic expectations. ...Lack of intimacy. ...Lack of equality. ... Most individuals that have been in a marriage have failed in the first one because it is somewhat a training season being it is the first time someone relinquished their space, patience, time, money, commitment, love and care to share with someone else. Out of those requirements to then divorce means you and your mate have failed to uphold those expectations. So, it's your first marriage and you failed but hell how often do you make the first three-pointer or the perfect dinner. We simply fail by trial and errors. But the second marriage failure like CNN newscaster Dana Bash means you are just not good at that. So you call the first marriage a trial and errors but what about the second marriage, a do-over. And being there is a divorce again what do you call it. Well it is called a failure to communicate or better yet a communicating failure on all aspects. Well, "I did this one thing good" but good didn't reach the other incidentals of the marriage. Let's say a person was young and immature when they got married the first time, ok, I give them that excuse but when does that end, at marriage two or three. Well if you decide to marry someone after they have had two marriages previously and there was something different both times, then shame on you if you decide to marry them because you thought they were matrimonial healthy.