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IF A GAY WOMAN CAN MARRY A STRAIGHT MAN WHY CAN'T A GAY MAN MARRY A STRAIGHT WOMAN



If Mrs. De Blasio NY city's mayor's wife identified as a lesbian can marry a man why can't a gay man marry a woman.  “I am a Lesbian” she frankly discussed her sexuality and expressed gratitude that she came to terms with her preference for women before marrying a man.

“I survived the tears, the isolation and the feeling that something was terribly wrong with me for loving another woman” Ms. McCray wrote. “Coming to terms with my life as a lesbian has been easier for me than it has been for many. Since I don’t look or dress like the typical bulldagger, I have a choice as to whether my sexual preference is known.”  She added, “I have also been fortunate because I discovered my preference for women early, before getting locked into a traditional marriage and having children.”

Why can't gay men comes to terms that sexuality is a preference and can also be a choice. Preference is the selection of one thing or person over others while choice is an option; a decision; an opportunity to choose or select something. Mrs. De Blasio made a choice. Homosexuality doesn't remove the ability to have a choice it enforces a preference that can be compounded by sex.