LADIES YOU CANNOT PUT ICING ON THE CAKEISM CHARACTER OF A MAN
Many women think that if they apply some icing to their marriage the husband will become content in the marriage. But that's not completely true because being sweet or caring doesn't change the character of a man. Some men have a Cakeism character, that is the belief that something is possible to enjoy beyond the realm of reality, simply because they think that they should have it. This can be related to cars, jewelry and clothes but those items plays a big part in facilitating outside women.
Have your cake and eat it too means
to have or do two good things at the same time that are impossible to have or do at the same time. Cakeism is a quirk in character of a man that says he can.
Women look pass the opportunity to catch this because they are so sold on the layers i.e., image, compelling charm, and whether he is religiously affiliated that they fail to uncover hidden allergens substances capable of triggering a response that ends the marriage. Don't mix the icing until you read the content of the man and don't assume a thin layer of anything sweet will solve a character problem.